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EP 32 | Jared and Camille Beckstrand | Caught Not Taught

Tuesday, November 14, 2023

What You'll Learn In This Show:

  • Discover how Jared and Camille master the art of limiting kids' social media use.
  • ​​Learn the secrets to educating kids and teens about social media, turning it from a digital maze into a learning space.
  • ​Find out how to discipline your kids just right, especially in the tricky world of gadgets and gizmos.
  • ​Why taking control of situations is far better than doing damage control.
  • ​Learn about the importance of nurturing real-life connections over social media friendships.
  • ​How to talk about social media safety with kids, making it less of a lecture and more of a life-saving dialogue.
  • ​Discover how being fully present with your kids can work wonders, transforming ordinary moments into extraordinary ones.
  • ​And so much more...

Episode Summary:


Ever wonder if your kids are learning life's biggest lessons from their screens, or from you?

In today's episode of the Powerful Parenting Journey podcast, Stephanie talks with Jared and Camille Beckstrand, an influential online couple with impactful parenting voices.

With a staggering 6 million followers combined, four kids, and a wealth of knowledge on family and health, they're here to delve into the digital dilemma of our age: when should our kids be introduced to social media?

In today's eye-opening segment, dive into the Beckstrands' inventive strategy for modern parenting as they tackle the digital world head-on. They've made a rule: no social media until the kids are older. Plus, they’ve come up with a cool idea—a contract with their kids.

From discussing the critical importance of discipline and guiding what children should have access to, to managing and taking control of situations rather than scrambling for damage control—this power couple has insights that will change the way you think about parenting and social media. They also shared tips on maintaining open communication, deepening relationships, and inspiring your kids to recognize their own limitless potential.

Yet, there's more to their story.

Camille addresses a troubling pattern emerging on TikTok, involving young people severing connections with their family. It's a complex issue that the Beckstrands are ready to unpack, offering their perspective on how to bridge gaps and heal family dynamics before they reach a breaking point.

So, how do we navigate these choppy waters and keep our family ships sailing smoothly?

Tune in to 'Caught not Taught' and be part of the conversation that's shaping the next generation.

Quotes:


“Just because everyone else is using it doesn't mean you have to.” - Camille Beckstrand


“In my relationship with Jared, our marriage is first. Our kids know that mom and dad are best friends, and no one's going to break that apart.” - Camille Beckstrand


“We just want to inspire our kids to recognize that there are no limits to what they can do.” - Camille Beckstrand


“Create the home that you wish you were born into.” - Camille Beckstrand


"Being that involved in social media and being in it for that long, we have seen the good, the bad, and the downright ugly." - Camille Beckstrand


"You need to follow the rules of the road, and the rules of the road aren't there to limit or restrict you. They're actually there to keep you safe." - Jared Beckstrand


"Our big thing is just always explaining the 'why' behind what we do. Because we feel that our kids deserve to know that. We’re not just setting rules to be mean. We’re not setting these parameters just to be terrible parents and make their lives miserable. We’re setting these safe boundaries to help them learn in a safe environment and to have freedom within those boundaries." - Camille Beckstrand


"Be involved in whatever apps your kid is on." - Camille Beckstrand


"Be 100% present wherever you are." - Camille Beckstrand


"We become the parents that we are in a lot of ways as a result of what we experienced as a child." - Stephanie Dove Blake


"Life doesn’t happen to you; it happens for you." - Camille Beckstrand


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